How best men can cultivate good penis maintenance culture, expert reveals

Often times, many men feel dejected or inferior when fellow men brag about their performances on bed.

However, according to Funmi Akingbade, a sex therapist, speaking on how best men can cultivate good penis maintenance culture, she maintained that mostly men lie about their performances.

She maintained that while it is true that men create distorted pictures of high level of sexual and penis performance, thus making other men wind up thinking that their sex life is missing something, It is not true that great sex universally produces the same feeling and experience for everyone.

“I would like to submit here that it is very important not to believe what other men say about their performance. This is because many men create distorted pictures of high level of sexual and penis performance, thus making other men wind up thinking that their sex life is missing something. No! this is far from the truth most of the time.

“It is not true that great sex universally produces the same feeling and experience for everyone. Actually, great sex is in the eye of the beholder, inasmuch as men think about sex approximately 19 times per day. For many husbands, great sex might be the ability to produce fantabulous multiple orgasms in their wives; it could also be by being able to last for uninterrupted strong 15 minutes thrusting, which is the ideal timing for good ejaculation. This is not only needful but also healthy for the penis. Now, if you have difficulty reaching this level, you may call me for the natural technicality and methods. The inability to differentiate universal differences makes men to be plagued with self-doubt, clinging to myths and misperceptions about sex, sexuality, and penis performance level.

“One of the reasons the penis performs badly is when the man thinks that his wife is always ready for sex or that sex with his wife should always end in orgasm. When you mentally condition your penis to perform that way and the penis meets up with an unwilling co-pilot and this situation goes on for a while, the penis loses its potentiality, strength and confidence. So instead of pairing up the penis with an unwilling vagina, first prepare a willing vagina.

“Begin with a pillow talk and make the vagina to be fully expectant after which you introduce the penis. By this action, the penis performance is always pronounced, because it is focusing more on pleasurable sensation and this immediately removes all inhibitions such as eye-gazing, body massaging, sensual breathing and sweet low/deep talks. Amazingly, a lot of wives are very responsive to their husbands’ voice during deep penetrative sex. According to research, this act actually helps to tighten the vaginal wall during thrusting in and out. This is because if a man has verbal ability and can entice a woman through his voice, that same ability connects the whole being of the woman to her man during deep penetration, making her to tightly cling to him even with her vaginal wall.

“Avoid penis shrinkers; do not smoke. Men who smoke have shrinking penis more than non-smokers. One reason, of course, is that smoking is a known cause of impotence. And there’s some evidence that smoking affects erection size. Inasmuch as some wives may be silent about the size, many prefer their husbands’ manhood to be big. If it is not as big as their desire, it should at least not be smaller than what they first saw. Researchers have found out that smokers’ penises are significantly smaller than non-smokers. In addition to damaging blood vessels, smoking may cause damage to penile tissue itself, making it less elastic and preventing it from stretching.

"Do not keep a mistress. It’s common for married men who start having affairs to stop having erections. It is very common; in fact, sex therapists and doctors who treat erectile dysfunction often discover that many of their patients getting sexual favour outside their marriage perform way below those who maintain a marriage sexual relationship. Unless your wife knows about, approves of such affairs (I have yet to meet with such), you’re bound to feel at least a little guilty about sex outside marriage when you’re with the other. Guilt can turn to anxiety and that can kill performance, especially with the legal wife.

"Fight diabetes to the utmost level. More than 50 per cent of all men with diabetes are impotent. The disease hits the penis with a double blow. It accelerates the process of arterial disease and it slows the transmission of stimuli along nerves throughout your body. And, trust me, a numb penis is not a happy penis. Staying trim is the best way to avoid diabetes. If it’s too late for that, be vigilant in checking your blood sugar. Men who are careless about controlling their levels have 70 per cent more erection problems than those who stay on top of it.

"Yes, men love to go deep and hard but it may amuse you to know that aiming your erect penis at the trunk of a tree is roughly the same density as hitting hard on your wife’s pubic bone. Therefore, do not rupture the corposa cavernosa, the elongated erectile chambers that run the length of your penis. 

"A complete rupture will require surgery within 24 hours to stop internal bleeding and reduce the risk of permanent damage. A partial tear may cause problems later on. As the linings of the corposa heal over with scar tissue, they lose their elasticity—leading to curvature, pain, and eventually impotence. By some estimates, more than a third of impotent men have a history of penile trauma.

"To protect yourself, be careful when your wife is on top. That’s the position most likely to cause damage."